Giving into the Anger

There is nothing more that I can't stand than people who are unknowingly un-sensitive and Judgmental!

Unfortunately this is something that I tend to experience more with people that I think will not judge me and I think I can be comfortable around. Such as family and friends...maybe because there is such a high level of comfort there that they think they can say whatever they want and it is okay....well it pisses me off! So goes the saying treat strangers like family and family like strangers. Here's what I mean by this: if a customer at work was to make an obnoxious comment to you, naturally you would want to respond with a "fuck off!" but because you know that maybe you should be sensitive to the fact that hmmm I don't know their grandpa might of just passed away. Or you might get fired or looked down upon in the work place for not having the self restraint to handle your self with professionalism. Either way whether you are basing the decisions of your actions off of the monetary system that makes the world go round and you can't afford to lose your job because you got pissed off for two minutes. Or because you are worried about how you will be perceived to complete strangers if you give in to that impulsive anger. The perception of our family and friends should be of far more importance to us when shit is hitting the fan. The people that we care for, and the people that care far more for us than our "bosses" do. Should get the better part of our impulse control skills. Instead of saving our better selves for complete strangers and coming home and going all psychotic on the ones we love. Because we built it all up, just to let it all out on someone that we know will forgive us.The point to this tirade is that as a whole maybe we should start listening to what comes out of our mouths and how insensitive a comment can sound or how rude and bitter a tone and eye squint can make a statement seem. It's not okay just because you are related to that person or have known them for a long period of time. To expect their forgiveness when you are under minding them and treating them like they are of less worth than the person that you have just met...just saying stay aware of what may be of more importance in life...goodnight :)